X says:
well..the onus is on the *guy* or girl to at least say "hey, im studying rite nw n i rili nid to focus..will catch up wit u once im done. tk cre..i love u.." or something. im sure the other oarty wont hold it against him or her.
X says:
it's all about effort.

see. this crucial period has its ups and REALLY downs. so it's a testing time for all relationships. so boo yah! heh. will add more stuff. once it comes in.