three topics for this weekend. rebounds. dating. falling.

let's start with rebounds.

i dont mean rebounds as in basketball. i mean when u get out from a relationship and go to the nearest guy/girl and start something new. and before you know it. s/he is a rebound person. hah. well, u cant really help it. well sometimes. most of the time.

like in some of my previous posts, people do have certain jobs in this world. some to touch lives. some to change the world. some just make u feel guilty. haha. probably that rebound person was meant to make u feel good about urself and move on. u never know these things.

usually the rebound person smells, feels the same like the ex. sad aint it. well sometimes. its somehow connected in some weird way.

dating.

wat defines dating? two people on the same page, going out having fun. or jus two frens wanting more than jus frenship? sometimes and usually most of the time, one or the other or both would deem it to be dating. well of cos, the laws are explicitly stated and it is jus an outing/hanging out session. den confirm got someone cheat one! or not. *shrugs*

there's nothing wrong in dating. esp when u're single. when u're attached. it's a big no-no. well. if u are attached and date ur other half, it's okay lah. but go out with another person, please eh. dont spoil market. not enough to go around as it is. :P

falling.

ive yet to fall completely. twice before i fell. hurts. end up in hospital. heh. would i want to fall again? duno. once bitten, twice shy. but third time. uhm..im quoting kamal. sheesh. "sorry i cannot" *holds out palm*

ever heard of the ladder theory? it applies to girls onli i think. the theory states that there are two ladders girls would let the guy climb. the fren ladder and the more than frens ladder. by first impression, more or less they place u on a ladder. if u fall (in love.like.crush.lust) den u fall into an abyss. only occasionally u get to the other ladder. but rarely. really. (assuming u start on the frens ladder. but i think it goes both ways)

for guys it's different. u onli want to go up one ladder. the "go to bed with them ladder". which totally defines it that there is no such thing as platonic relationships. haha. it's wrong lor. i got platonic relationships lor. haha.

no basis ah this theory. tsk. no scientific evidence to prove the hypothesis correct.

fourth week of school. better get my ass going. like i said before, if u bump into me in sch, u're damn lucky. ciaoz.